Problem Solving – Staying Ahead of the Game https://saotg.com Get Ahead. Stay Ahead. Wed, 09 Dec 2020 21:34:04 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 https://saotg.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/cropped-saotg-favicon-32x32.jpg Problem Solving – Staying Ahead of the Game https://saotg.com 32 32 Bouncing Back After a Bad Grade https://saotg.com/bouncing-back-after-a-bad-grade/ Mon, 14 Dec 2020 08:00:50 +0000 https://saotg.com/?p=3437

Whether he or she expected it or was blindsided, a low grade can shake even the most confident students. The teacher plops the graded essay on the desk with a thud or in the modern era, your student receives a google classroom notification that the test grades are posted. After a few heart-racing moments of anticipation, your student flips the paper over or clicks the “grade detail button”… and it stings. Failure has more bite than most events. 

So, how do we keep one failure from becoming a series of failures? How do we help students bounce back after a low grade?

There are three main ingredients to “failing forward”, a term coined to describe the process of making the most of our failures to create a launching point for future success. Here are the tactics:

    1.) Don’t Compare Your Bloopers to Someone Else’s Highlight Reel

Especially in the age of social media, comparison is the first thing to avoid. Help students gain perspective early in the “failing forward” process. Be vulnerable. Admit (I know it’s difficult) that you didn’t ace every test in school, no one does. Students need to learn that failure is a necessary ingredient for success. As the great inventor, Thomas Edison famously said, “I have not failed, I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” There is something to learn in failure, making it incredibly useful. Beginning with a realistic look at failure helps students develop a growth mindset and paves the way for a legendary comeback. 

    2.) Focus on Growth, Don’t Wallow in Self-Pity

As we’ve discussed, a low grade is not the end, it’s the beginning. The most crucial steps in bouncing back from failure are reflection and action. Encourage students to reflect on what caused the result. In other words, what inputs caused this output. Help your student reflect with these questions:

  • Did I give myself enough time to comprehend the material?
  • Did I put myself in a test situation before test day? In other words, did I confirm my understanding before it was tested?
  • What material was crucial to this test that I didn’t grasp? 
  • What caused the majority of my mistakes on this exam?
  • Did I take advantage of every resource afforded to me?

Next, move toward action. Help your student establish an action plan for next time to correct these mistakes. Focus on avoiding procrastination, utilizing active recall, and taking effective notes. 

    3.) Make up the Margin

One often overlooked step after a bad grade is creative thinking to make up the deficit. As we frequently remind students, TEACHERS WANT TO HELP YOU. Most teachers provide ample opportunities for students to recover. Encourage your student to review the syllabus, explore the website, or ask for opportunities to make up the deficit of the low grade. Grit is crucial. The smallest action is more effective than the greatest intention. 

For more advice on helping your student succeed, check out the rest of our resources! Oftentimes, the best students are not the most intelligent but the most diligent. Use the tips above to help your child develop a growth mindset and reach come back stronger than ever. 



 

 

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How to Help Your Student Get out of a Slump https://saotg.com/how-to-help-your-student-get-out-of-a-slump/ https://saotg.com/how-to-help-your-student-get-out-of-a-slump/#respond Mon, 23 Dec 2019 08:00:00 +0000 https://saotg.com/?p=1970

We all get stuck sometimes. Recently, we spoke about Seasonal Affective Disorder, but really, there are endless possible reasons for why it happens. Whether due to overscheduling, bad sleep habits, or just plain burnout, getting into a rut is something that all students experience from time to time. The important thing, however, is what we do to recover when a slump does inevitably hit.

Rather than get caught up on exactly what the cause of a particular dull period is, let’s take a look at some useful strategies for making sure that slumps don’t get the best of us regardless of how or when they happen.

Get Organized

Sometimes, the way things are around us can have a big effect on the way we feel. If a student is feeling lost or unmotivated, cleaning up and rearranging his or her space (bedroom, locker, etc.) can help them feel like they can regain control of their thoughts as well.

Step Back

The most basic tip on this list can also be the hardest to actually accomplish. Often, when we’re in the midst of a struggle, it’s easy to lose sight of the big picture. This leads to frustration and stepping back and thinking objectively can be the last thing on a student’s mind. A short break can be a good opportunity to gain perspective, but really, there’s never a bad time to take stock. Sometimes perspective makes all the difference.

Think Small

One of the most common things that comes with hitting a rut is the feeling of being overwhelmed by the size or number of the tasks that need to get done. Encourage your student to break big jobs down into smaller tasks can make them seem far more manageable. Similarly, the best goals are not large, grand things for far in the future, they’re relatively small and attainable. Making sure that milestones are set realistically and celebrating these minor successes can play an important role in keeping students engaged in their studies. (To read more about goal setting, check out our post on SMART goals.)

Prioritize

Similar to the previous tip, deciding which tasks are important and which can wait is another important piece of the puzzle. Nothing breeds a sense of tedium like getting bogged down trying to solve some a problem that has no meaningful payoff or doesn’t really matter in the long run. Making a list of each task on a student’s agenda and then ranking them in order of urgency can help bring important tasks into focus and eliminate the “fluff.”

Embrace Imperfection

Another struggle that can leave many students feeling unmotivated or hopeless is the sense that, no matter how hard they try, they will never be able to get something right. This is especially common with students who suffer from anxiety, but it’s found across the board, and is sometimes even (unintentionally) reinforced by overbearing parents or teachers. It’s important for students to remember that the process of trying and learning matters more than the hard results. Just because they may not be able to achieve perfection in whatever they’re working on doesn’t meant that their efforts are worthless.

Be Kind to Yourself

Lastly, it’s far too easy for students to be hard on themselves. Whether it’s about meeting the expectations of their parents, impressing their peers, or even their own inner standards, many students spend more time convincing themselves that they are not doing enough. Similar to our previous suggestion, celebrating small achievements rather than focusing on how much better it could have been can helps students fell like they are working for a purpose.

Aside from these, there are hundreds of tips and tricks that can be useful to help students of all ages regain their motivation. The most important thing to remember is that it happens to everyone; the difference between successes and failures is how we respond to adversity when it does come.

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